Does She Like You? | Reading A Colombian’s Body Language
Have you ever met a Colombian woman you wanted to date, and you weren’t sure how that would ever work?
A lot of the time, you’re uncertain because you have no idea how to read certain people, especially if they are from a foreign country.
No matter the experience, dating is always going to be a little difficult. And most of the time, a lot of men aren’t even sure if the women they’re infatuated with feel the same way for them. It’s a lot of trial and error, yes, but it doesn’t mean it’s impossible.
Meeting women, to this day, can be a nerve-wracking experience. And yet, people are able to do it day in and day out with success. It’s just a matter of being a gentleman and knowing what to say.
Being nervous is fine. It’s normal, after all. So if you’re going to Colombia to get a girlfriend, you need to know how to tell if one likes you first.
How do you do that, you ask? Simple. You just know what to look for when you’re talking to a lady.
1. The Shyness
There’s shy, and then there’s shy only when she’s around you. If she’s into you but doesn’t know you yet, she will be slightly nervous around you. With women, being shy is a clear indication of attraction.
She’ll make sudden movements, blink her eyes quickly, yawn continuously, or contort her hands. These are signs of nervousness, which typically happens when a person is shy and around someone they’re interested in.
2. Blushing When You’re Around
Blushing is one of the most noticeable and fundamental signs that a woman is interested in a man. If she blushes when you compliment her, or say something nice to her, then it most likely means she likes you.
3. Tilting Her Head Towards You When Talking
If you’re talking and she’s leaning inward, she’s engaged with you and what you’re saying. People tend to really tune in to someone if that person is their object of affection. It shows that she’s interested in what you have to say and is most likely listening to your voice.
Women sometimes get a little excited when your voice is exactly their type. They will listen to you talk all day long, if they can. Especially if you have a deep, rumbling voice.
4. Loose Body Language
If she’s relaxed around you, then it’s a sign that she’s comfortable with you. This doesn’t automatically mean she’s attracted to you though. A lot of women are like that with people they easily get along with.
You’ll have to observe a little bit more once you’re in this situation. If the two of you haven’t known each other long, but she uses a relaxed style of body language, it could mean that she’s interested.
5. She Fixes Herself Up Constantly
There are fewer signs more obvious than a woman making efforts to make herself presentable to you. Watch out for when she does simple things like reapplying her lip gloss, fixing her bangs, or straightening her blouse. A lot of women do this, but there’s a clear distinction for those who want to look the best in front of their crush.
Besides, where do you see a woman who would put in that much effort for a guy she doesn’t even like?
6. Mimics Your Gestures
This is an interesting sign to look out for. It’s in human nature to want to mimic the people we admire, whether unconsciously or purposely. If you notice that she’s been copying your gestures and movements, then she might be attracted to you.
Watch the way you fold your legs or when you put your chin in your palm. If she copies you, then take it as a sign.
7. Comfortable Enough To Touch You
Women often put their hands on a man if they are interested in him. She may graze your arm in agreement with something you said or rub your hand as a show of affection. This type of body language portrays how she feels comfortable enough around you that she does not feel scared or awkward when physically interacting with you.
It doesn’t necessarily mean she’s throwing herself at you. Some women are just openly affectionate. Observe her first before you make the decision of reciprocating the touches.
8. Reacting To Your Touches
Watch her reactions when you lightly touch her. This is usually how you get a good grasp about her own intentions. If she happens to notice every little touch you do, it’ll show. She’s either going to blush, giggle, flash a quick smile or touch you back in a not-so-subtle way.
However, if she pulls away or doesn’t even notice your touch, then it’s also a sign that she, at best, just sees you as a friend.
9. Her Feet Point Towards You
Another non-verbal sign that most men don’t notice is when a girl points her feet at you. Even she might not know about it. People aren’t consciously aware where they point their feet, especially when they are conversing with someone. Now that you know this, observe.
If her feet are pointing at you in the midst of talking, it might be because she’s very attracted to you.
But if they’re pointed away, or facing the door, then it’s the opposite. The same can be said if her feet are tucked beneath her or if her legs are crossed.
10. Stands Straight, Stomach Tucked And Shoulders Back
This one might be a little obvious to spot if you were looking for it. A woman will straighten her back and pull her shoulders back to look her best if she was in the presence of her crush. Her stomach will be tucked in too. It’s easy to take note of her posture and it changes as she walks away from or towards you.
If she senses that you’re looking, she may make adjustments to her posture. She could subconsciously lick her lips or stroke her neck when approaching or passing you. Girls do this to emphasize their face or body. Once again, observe her reactions first before making the move.
What Happens Next?
What you do next is up to you. Does she show any of the signs listed here? If she does, why don’t you make the first move? And if she beats you to it, why not reciprocate in kind?
Most women around the world show the same signs, though some may be a bit bolder than others. Colombian women may show a bit more boldness than others too. If she doesn’t like someone, she will show it. But if she does, in fact, like you, it’ll most likely be obvious.
So now you know. Use this knowledge in finding love in Colombia. You might just get lucky and find the one girl you’re looking for.
